On the web, for free, beginning lessons in ASP, try:
http://www.learnasp.com/learn/index.asp
(They are more sample pages than true lessons, but you can learn a lot from them.)
For the answer to lots of common ASP questions:
http://www.aspfaqs.com/aspfaqs/
(I wrote many of these FAQs, and some of them dovetail with the examples in these pages.)
For ASP performance tips:
http://www.microsoft.com/technet/treeview/default.asp?url=/TechNet/prodtechnol/iis/tips/asptips.asp
For basic SQL tutorials:
http://spectral.mscs.mu.edu/javadev/databases/sqltut.html
http://www.w3schools.com/sql/sql_intro.asp
Microsoft JET SQL tutorials:
http://msdn.microsoft.com/library/default.asp?url=/library/en-us/dnacc2k/html/acfundsql.asp
http://msdn.microsoft.com/library/en-us/dnacc2k/html/acintsql.asp?frame=true
Advanced MS Jet SQL tutorial - Focuses on mangaging Views, Stored Procs, and Security in Access via SQL
http://msdn.microsoft.com/library/default.asp?url=/library/en-us/dnacc2k/html/acadvsql.asp
Using ADOX
http://msdn.microsoft.com/library/default.asp?url=/library/en-us/ado270/htm/admthappendtables.asp
For samples of all the DSN-Less connections you could ever want:
http://www.able-consulting.com/ADO_Conn.htm
(Check this one out! Short and simple and accurate.)
For VBScript, JScript, Remote Scripting, and Windows Scripting Host references:
http://msdn.microsoft.com/scripting/
(You must download the docs, as well! Much more convenient than the web-based docs.)
For JET SQL(Access), ADO, ASP, and VBScript references among many others:
http://www.devguru.com/
Microsoft Developer's Network....It's often tough to find what you need, but they have tons of very, very technical documentation if you have the patience to search for awhile:
http://msdn.microsoft.com/
More ASP tutorials, articles, and miscellany:
http://www.4guysfromrolla.com/
http://www.infinitemonkeys.ws/infinitemonkeys/
http://www.eggheadcafe.com/
For lists of (and some ratings of) available ASP components:
http://www.aspin.com/
Component vendors:
http://www.serverobjects.com/
(Good people! And some handy free components, as well!)
http://www.cyscape.com/
For IIS, Index Server, SMTP questions:
http://www.iisfaq.com/
http://www.iisanswers.com/
For MS Access, and the Jet Engine:
http://www.adopenstatic.com/
For hairy SQL Server questions:
http://www.sqlteam.com
(Look in their discussions, too.)
http://www.sql-server-performance.com/
For CDO:
http://www.cdolive.com/
For JavaScript:
http://www.irt.org/
(Especially the JavaScript FAQs.)
http://www.javascript.com/
http://javascript.internet.com/
(But a lot of bad code in here, so use with caution.)
http://developer.netscape.com/docs/manuals/communicator/jsguide4/index.htm
For Security:
http://www.securityfocus.com/
For ASP.NET, VB.NET, C#, and the .NET Framework
http://gotdotnet.com/
(THE place to get started with .NET!)
http://aspnet.4guysfromrolla.com/
http://www.asp.net/
http://www.cshrp.net/
http://www.devx.com/dotnet/Default.asp
http://www.dotnetjunkies.com/
http://www.learnasp.com/learnasp/
http://ngcode.com/
http://www.codeproject.com/
http://www.123aspx.com/
http://www.dotnetextreme.com/
http://www.411asp.net/
http://www.15seconds.com/
And last, but certainly not least...
http://www.google.com/
(You have to be patient, but if you just start typing in terms, they have links to literally *billions* of documents, and it's hard to come up with questions that you can't find the answer to here.)